systems

I have systems for almost everything I do.
This includes drying myself, my wardrobe, my books and my cupboards.
For the untrained eye all may appear chaotic but I know where everything goes and how they go there.
My dearest looks at me as though I were a nutter when I mention these systems.
He refuses to follow the system for the cupboards.
And what happens? The bowls get shoved in the back where it is difficult to reach. The back of the cupboards are for rarely used dishes like the dessert bowls that came with the gaff.
Why why why not follow the system. Glasses get broken, plates impossible to find.
MADNESS.